Have you ever wondered how someone could promise you love, happiness marriage and in fact the entire
world and yet that some person neglects and leaves you especially in a romantic relationship?
The person could go far that you would think you have found your soul mate and begins to take
responsibilities like providing for their needs and some also giving away their pride all in the name of love.
But they still leave you anyway...
When you cast your mind backwards and reflect on the good days spent together, you only cry and curse
yourself for loving much.
You do your best to win their love back but to no avail.
You call they don’t answer , you text they read and not reply, you even comments on their social media
platforms but nothing, worst of all, when lucky they answer your calls and make you more miserable than
ever.
Sometimes you also try to meet in person to discuss your differences but in would rather lead to an
argument and things become worst.
In fact you try all kind of things to win the persons love and attention but zero; it seems nothing is working
out.
Ladies and gentlemen, if you are going through something similar, there is hope.
Broken hearts should not be an obstacle in your life, don’t think of suicide as in most cases.
Suicide is never an option!!!
Statistics show that 80% of suicide cases recorded in the year 2015 was as result of disappointment and
broken hearts.
That should not be the case because; your life is worth celebrating and really an important factor in the
cycle of nation building.
Ladies and gentlemen, there are so many things you can still do in order to be happy after been
disappointed in a romantic relationship.
This is what you ought to do first, you simply try and meet the person at the verge of breaking your heart or
if he or she has already done so.You talk face to face, express your feelings, express yourself, tell him or her the reason why you can’t live
your life without him or her. Be very sincere, look directly into his or her eyes. The eye contact should be
keen and enthusiastic. Discuss your future and the plans you have for you both, if you do this and still it
doesn’t work out then it’s probably that your partner have been manipulated by another person.
Then you must let go! You forget and move on otherwise you could be depressed and that could end up
retarding your progress in life.
Forgetting someone you truly love and would like to spend the rest of your life with is one of the hardest
things to do on earth,
Ladies and gentlemen, though it’s hard but that doesn’t make it impossible.
The most important thing you need and must do is to give space.
Practically, what I mean is stop calling persistently you can call once a while and exchange greetings that’s
all.
From the onset, the person breaking up feels less pain so he/she would have some advantage over you
because you feel the more pain.
Because of the fact that you’re hurt and disappointed you will be triggered to be calling persistently hence
making the person feel pompous.
You don’t behave or show that you can’t be without him/her. You must prove that you can have a
successful and a happier life without him/her.
Don’t go around talking to friends associated with the person leaving you to ascertain whether he/she has
moved on with someone else or not, don’t be stalking the person on social media or making unnecessary
comments on his posts. The more you try to find out if he or she is dating someone or not the more you get
hurt.
There are so many ways or things that you can do in order to let go of that person and the relationship.
First, one ought to understand that he or she isn’t meant for you! You have to start thinking and focusing on
your life, identity and develop your talent or what you’re good at. Make new friends, have time for one’s old
friends, support and help people around you especially children and the aged.
Smile to people around you, don’t frown and look down at yourself. Try and keep fit, exercise your body,
eat right too.
Concentrate on your religion, try your best to confront and respect the doctrines of your religion, talk to your
maker more than any other person; ask for directions and protection, You got to love your neighbours , be
at peace with everyone.Your idea person is waiting for you somewhere; it’s just a matter of time. One thing you should know is that
your happiness and success does not depend on anyone on this planet but yourself.
When you start doing all these stated, your soul would be at peace, then happiness begins to knock at your
door.
You would be happier than you could ever imagine, nature and the universe will make all things easy for
you, and your positive taught will be manifested in the phusical realm.
Remember to always be content with what you ever you have, your family, your school and even the
person you’re dating .Be proud of him or her. Turn death ears to rumors otherwise you would end up
jeopardizing your relationship.
“I am not what you think that I am, I am not what I think I am but I am what I think you think I am” don’t
prioritized anyone in life.
Written By :
Prince K. Mensah student
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